Becoming the person you want to be – 6 part series

Memory Part 2:

Why is that we tend to remember only our failures and dwell on them for a very long time?  At one point everything was new to us when we started to walk we would stumble get back up and try again.  When we first learned to ride a bike without our training wheels we may have faltered a bit but we kept on going. The expectations at that time was a given we would most likely “fail” but we received the encouragement to keep on going.  Then as we got older expectations may have changed and we may not have had the same encouragement as a small child and instead of “keep on going” we gave up and started to doubt who we were.   We need to remember to use our memory to recall previous events and experiences when we were successful, regardless of how small the success was it was still a success and by focusing on your successes, you build your self-confidence and become the person you want to be.

NLP and Hypnosis can help you change you limiting beliefs.

Becoming the person you want to be – 6 part series

Our six intellectual skills are:

Reasoning, Memory, Will, Imagination, Perception and Intuition.


Reasoning Part 1:

Reasoning is our ability to make sense of “our” world around us.  Much of our beliefs and reasoning begins at a very early age usually between 5-7 years of age created by ISE (Initial Sensitizing Event/s) a good example of this is when a child in called to go up to the chalk board to answer a question, the child may spell CAT as KAT and everyone laughs, at the moment the child at the board makes a decision based on their belief/reasoning that they are stupid, class clown, it could be anything.  This reasoning will continue to become a part of our environment due to part by repetition of the thought, peers that continue to laugh, authority figures who tell the child you know better than that, etc. this is sending a message to our subconscious mind that will start the process of protecting us from situations like this which many times leads to fear of public speaking. That part of us, which instinctively makes our heart pound at the thought of speaking in front of a large group of people.  As we get older we may learn that there is deductive reasoning (relying on our current understanding) and inductive reasoning (true thinking based on observation).  As a young child the environment around you created your perception through deductive reasoning.  As an adult you can use your inductive reasoning to create new images and ideas to become the person you want to be. 

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